What's Wrong With Forgiveness?

Why Jesus never said to forgive your enemy and why the whole world thinks He did!

Why Jesus Did Not Forgive His Enemies at the Cross

Someone got forgiven at the Cross, but it was not the Roman Soldiers!            What happened at the cross is the very foundation on which we establish all of our … Continue reading

March 7, 2014 · Leave a comment

Why Jesus Never Said to Forgive Your Enemy

Intro:  How could someone make such a bold, seemingly audacious statement?  Because, putting aside our  erroneous and deceptive  definitions of the verb “to forgive”  and using the Biblical definitions, forgiving … Continue reading

March 4, 2014 · Leave a comment

Chapter 1 Defining Forgiveness

Chapter 1 Defining Forgiveness Myth # 1:  Forgiveness means letting go of anger and bitterness Truth:       Forgiveness never means to let go of anger and bitterness.  Forgiveness (Aphiemi) only … Continue reading

March 3, 2014 · Leave a comment

How to Get Rid of the Gorilla of Bitterness Without Forgiveness

Photo: Andy Rouse How to get rid of the gorilla of Bitterness Without Forgiveness:  Trusting, Mourning, and Yielding A.     Identify the real struggle: Where does bitterness come from? 1.   My … Continue reading

February 27, 2014 · Leave a comment

Chapter 2 The Purpose of Forgiveness

Myth        God forgives people, therefore we must also forgive people. Truth:       God forgives sin, God does not forgive people. God saves people, God does not save sin. The Direct Object … Continue reading

February 26, 2014 · Leave a comment

7 Indisputable Principles of Forgiveness

7 Indisputable Principles of Forgiveness The questions that follow each of the 7 Principles will help you determine if you understand what Jesus was talking about when he taught on … Continue reading

February 25, 2014 · Leave a comment

Jewish and Christian Forgiveness???

Jews and Christians have the opposite problems concerning forgiveness. Jesus was not talking to Christians when talking about forgiveness.  He was talking to Jews who were steeped in the cultural … Continue reading

February 25, 2014 · Leave a comment

Christian Counselors and Ministers: STOP

A Message to Christian Counselors and Ministers: Please stop confusing and re-victimizing people who have been hurt by unrepentant offenders.  JESUS WOULD NEVER TELL THEM TO FORGIVE IN ORDER TO … Continue reading

February 24, 2014 · Leave a comment

Defining Forgiveness: 3. Opposes Truth of Biblical Reconciliation

3.      Theologically opposed to the truth of reconciliation Defining forgiveness as “to release anger” is unbiblical because it demands a false belief that forgiveness and reconciliation can be separated.  For … Continue reading

February 24, 2014 · Leave a comment

2. Letting Go of Anger: A Scripturally impossible definition of forgiveness.

2.  Letting Go of Anger:  A Scripturally impossible definition of forgiveness.   You have probably heard it said that, “Forgiveness is as much for us as it is those we forgive,“ … Continue reading

February 24, 2014 · Leave a comment

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